A brief history of "HeART Friends":
My good friend Charice Cooper and I have collaborated on art for several years....doing murals and faux finishes together, as well as fun mixed media pieces. We've had several discussions on "the purpose of our art" and "what can we do to make it more meaningful and to benefit others?" We decided that the mixed media art pieces we create together would be used to "give back" in some way. We came up with the name "HeART friends, for a couple of reasons. 1) God connected us as friends and we've been able to support each other in our art journeys. 2) we both have a heart to use our art to reach out to others. The following is one story of how we were led to do this:
A few years ago, my
daughter decided she wanted me to “update” her room from
“teenie-bopper” to sophisticated. I was hesitant, as I’d already redone the
room at least 3 times. After a couple years of negotiating, I caved! I agreed,
her room was very small, and currently caged a full size loft bed which took up
practically the entire room. It wasn’t too practical when the grandparents came
to visit.
We decided to look for a twin trundle, which brings me to
the story.
My husband, Tyler, found a beautiful white wooden trundle on
Craig’s list (which I had planned to refinish to look Parisian-chic). He called
the owners and they initially had said someone else was going to buy the bed. It
turned out the other buyers fell through and we were next in line.
Tyler drove passed Cooks Children’s hospital in Ft. Worth on
the way to pick up the bed. As he continued to drive, he felt an urgency to
pray for someone that was in that hospital. He didn’t know exactly who, at the
time. He found out within minutes.
When he arrived at the residence, the owner, Jimmy,
mentioned that his wife Deanna had just left to go to Cook’s Children’s
hospital to visit their niece, Lauren. He proceeded to tell the story of how she ended
up in the hospital. As he described the
incident, Tyler realized that he and I had been following this same story on
facebook which had gone viral. This is the story of the Nevils; Steve and Katy,
and their daughter, Lauren and son, Will, whom they call “Cowboy”.
The family had been traveling from Tennessee to Texas to
visit their family for Thanksgiving. Tragically, just outside the
Texas/Arkansas border, another car hit them, and they careened into a tree, which sadly took Katy’s life, and threatened the life of their daughter, Lauren. Their
story is one of tragedy, but also of faith. Their family has touched so many
lives, including mine. It’s been almost 2 years since the accident. (They just
recently had the trial of the driver who hit them. You can read about it here):
http://www.hopeprescott.com/nevil-family-hopes-to-begin-healing-after-coe-pleads-guilty/
I won’t go into all the details of the family here, but you
can follow their story on facebook. https://www.facebook.com/PrayingForTheNevils
Star Telegram article from February, 2013: http://www.star-telegram.com/2013/02/17/4626990/support-showered-on-family-after.html
Tyler told me about his visit when he got home. I felt the
need to do something, knowing no matter what it was it would be tiny in
comparison to what they had been through.
I contacted Deanna, and told her about my idea to paint
something for the Nevils. She told me that Steve, Lauren, and Cowboy had just come up
with an idea in one of their counseling sessions to draw a family crest, and
shared their drawing with me.
Because my friend, Charice and I collaborate on
some art pieces for benefits, I contacted her, and we went to work. We decided to create a version of their
family crest.
It is based on the verse Ecclesiastes 4:12. “Though one may be overpowered, two can
defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” The wings
and cross represent our home in Heaven; the hand and heart represent helping
others, which is strong in their hearts; and the verse is significant of their
family as they work together through the tragedy.
Charice and I working on the Nevil piece.
We presented the piece to Steve and the kids, and we got to
meet his family; including several extended family members. I can’t even begin
to describe the impact they had on me. They were all so kind, open, and
caring. We spoke with Steve at length,
and could see God’s grace and strength poured out over him and how God was
using this family and blessing them in so many ways in the midst of
tragedy. We also got to spend a little
time with sweet Lauren, a true miracle. I feel that I received so much more
from them, than they received from us.
It is the hope of Charice and I that we can use our art to
benefit others in some, small way, although the blessings that return are
astounding to me.